Looking for love at college? In honor of Valentine’s Day, online dating expert Julie Spira, author of the bestseller The Perils of Cyber-Dating, discusses the rise in online dating at college … and offers tips for success.
Students are finding dating more difficult these days, as they juggle studying, work and checking into their favorite multiple social networks. Between online courses, studying for finals and logging on to Facebook to stare at your high-school crush, sometimes they are just too busy to add traditional dating to the curriculum.
Dating while in college can be challenging. As a result, dating sites and mobile apps specifically designed for college students are making the headlines. On a given day, it’s not unusual to find your roommate logging onto Facebook, OkCupid or one of the fastest growing college dating sites: Date My School, which was launched by two Columbia University students – Jean Meyer and Balazs Alexa- who found themselves frustrated with the dating process and wanted a place for students to date outside their existing social and online networks.
Since most students created Facebook profiles while still in high school, they’ve been social dating without the formality of joining a traditional site. However, online dating sites require members to be 18 years or older.
What sites are college students using? Free dating sites Plenty of Fish and OkCupid, both claim that approximately 60 percent of their members are aged 18-30. Match.com reports that 20 percent of their members are under the age of 30. Most dating sites have mobile apps to help you date on-the-go or connect while taking a study break.
At the end of the digital day, finding love online – through Facebook chat or college dating sites from the convenience of your mobile phone or iPad – has never been easier for college students.
If you choose to date online, be sure to follow these dos and dont’s:
-Do post 3 to 5 photos and look into the camera and smile.
-Do say what you’re looking for, whether it’s friendship, a date or a serious relationship.
-Don’t get overwhelmed with the process. It’s like looking for a job. Stay organized and focused.
Remember, students, just because you have the added benefit of a built-in social network offline, it does not necessarily mean you need to wait until you’ve graduated to find love online.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Have you tried online dating? How was your experience?
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Author Julie Spira, The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online, is a graduate of the Park School of Communications at Ithaca College, where she has a bachelor of science degree in Television-Radio.